Mind your position September 11, 2011

My last post is on september last year.. and its quite a while
today i want to write about some seriuos thought of mine.. i feel like people must learn how to speak wisely but firm.. since nowadays we pleasured to have a talk by Blackberry, so somehow the way we “talk” is accepted in different kind of tone and sometimes it really does sucks!

why??

example: we need to catch the deadline soon, why all of you dont feel the same rush like me? i am not tolerating any delay.

how is the tone supposed to be? anger? wise? thoughtfull? firm? consice? you can’t tell, it can be anything. it does not matter if it came from your boss, but how about your friend?

you are sitting in the same level while you got that message, i’ll read with the anger tone but maybe he/she wrote it with thoughtfull tone. then the missunderstanding sucks!!

what is wrong with that? for my guess, its the message, the way you wrote it..

so, please mind your position while you writting a message, you can’t blame people with how they read it but more like they way you supposed to write it. put yourself in the reader’s shoe, and i am sure it is not only for talking that need a wise words to put into it but also a message.

it is not only a word from a mouth that can hurt people’s feeling but also the word that your finger typed.

PLEASE DO REALIZE WHO DO YOU TALKING TO, AND WHOEVER IT IS PUT A NICE WORDS INTO IT!! MIND YOUR POSITION. –> read it with a thoughtfull tone guys

the ONE September 6, 2010

Tanggal 5sept’10,micha + pongo + gw ngobrol gitu di kamar gw,ntah kenapa yg kita bahas itu relationship

Now it kept me thinking about ‘the ONE’.. Gimana caranya yakin lo menemukan si ‘the ONE’

If we see someone,he/she rules how you should be,who you should meet, who is your friends.. Is he/she appropriate become ‘the ONE’ ?

If you see someone, does the period of time make he/she ‘the ONE’ ?

If you see someone,does it olny needs a click and comfort to make he/she become ‘the ONE’?

If you see someone,does it because you know each other so damn well then make he/she ‘the ONE’?

If you think he/she is ‘the ONE’,is it only heart knows but brain doesn’t?

If you can see your bright future with him/her,does it make them ‘the ONE’ ?

How can you be so sure with someone that hurts you once or more and still make him/her ‘the ONE’ for you?

If you said to yourself ‘we meant to be together’..does he/she as ‘the ONE’ think in the same way?

HOW CAN YOU KNOW ‘THE ONE’ IS EXACTLY ‘THE RIGHT ONE’?

mikrolet June 29, 2010

Barusan bgt,gw goreng ayam kan yaa,trus gw goreng kebanyakan karena gw kira bapak gw pulang trus blom makan malem..nah! Tiba tiba si mba gw dtg

Mba: masak apa mba?
Gw: ini ayam buat saya ama bapak
Mba: lah! Bapak kan ga pulang,keluar kota kata ibu
Gw: yah elah,ini ayamnya gimana?kasih mama aja deh
Mba: ibu udah makan
Gw: yaudah kasih kiki aja (adek gw) atau anky (adek gw)
Mba: udah makan juga mba
Gw: yaudah simpen aja lah,ntar simpenin ya mba
Mba: iya iya mba,nanti saya taroh di MIKROLET aja ya?!
Gw: hah?
Mba: disitu (menunjuk sebuah teknologi) biar gampang dipanasin
Gw: MICROWAVE KALEE MBA!

-_-!

a life to remember June 24, 2010

A life to remember
With serenade plays so tender
Blows the east wind to north
Maybe this is the life that is worth

Be anything I want to be
Just ignore what they say about me
This is my life and my story
I’ll make a lifetime glory

A life to remember
The part when my sadness grows bigger
Remind me how to much I won’t surrender
Because I was born as a fighter

What does your life color you?
A pink? Yellow? Red? Blue?
My life colors me plain
Just to let me pick the color to paint
And make a picture of life to remember…..

drama queen alert!! June 16, 2010

To all the drama queens:

Life is already a drama.. No need to be a drama queen!!

Sincerely yours,

Fara

sekilas info June 16, 2010

Tahukah anda faradilla leolita galistan merupakan salah satu spesies bonsai yang pernah ditantang untuk duduk disebuh kursi kelas dan melihat apakah kakinya sampai ke lantai..dengan tantangan tersebut,fara berkata: ‘sampe kok!’ Dan tiba tiba ‘tapi gantung’
Ternyata memang harus menerima betapa bonsainya saya -_-”

lumayan buat baca baca June 15, 2010

Ga pernah berusaha untuk sok bijak,berhubung ini blog gw,gw berhak curhat aja siih..ehehehe
Hmm..entah knp gw ngerasa harus berkaca dengan semua yg gw lakukan..
Gw akuin gw pernah salah,gw pernah jahat sama orang! Tapi kalo mau klise: people make mistakes! We are people who live with sins,people do kill,steal,lie,having two faces,judge,mock,mad,talk harsh,hurt other! People do those mean and disgusting attitudes! BUT people can change or stay the same

Me? I do several stuff above,but do I change or I stay the same? People will judge that.. I do have enemies! I’m glad to have ones..why? I learned so many from them..they’re my experience,they teach me to be a better person and also create a fear + motivation for me to prove that I can get more friends than enemies..but some friends left me too..well! Like the other cliche statement: when there’s an hello,there will be a goodbye.. Its life! Life sucks? Hmmm..not really..it depends how you enjoy it and making it as the best moment that you’ll ever had

For all the friends and enemies,thank you for teach me a lot in life,be the trigger for me to change, be the one who tells me about fear so then I know how to be a better human being, I’m not mad at you,I thanked you for telling me what was wrong.. Hope you forgive me from all the mistakes that I’ve made

Best regards,

Fara

PS: you can’t please all people! AND PLEASE SEE YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR THEN YOU’LL SEE HOW MUCH YOU DEDICATE YOURSELF FOR YOUR OWN DREAM IN LIFE

sekilas info May 30, 2010

Tahukah anda, faradilla leolita galistan dulu mengira bahwa opname = laminating dan akhirnya pada saat ibunya di opname,dan seseorang bertanya ‘mama mana?’ Dengan lugas faradilla leolita galistan menjawab ‘di laminating’ -_-”

angkot tiga roda May 30, 2010

Pas kamis kmaren, gw memutuskan untuk brangkat kuliah dengan naik angkutan umum bahasa gaulnya tuh angkot.. Dengan gagah, tangan ini di lambaikan dengan tatap mata langsung ke mata sang supir seakan berkata ‘kiri,kiri pir’

Angkot pun berhenti, gw di sebelah kiri belakang angkot (maunya sih di pangkuan pak kusir *genit abiiss hahaa)..5 menit angkot masih mulus, 10 menit semakin mulus, 15 menit, tetap mulus dan tiba tiba angkot miring ke kiri dan jalannya mulai seperti mobil gaul dengan pompa (ga karuan pokoknya)

Dan ternyata bannya kempes sekempes kempesnya kempes, dan anda tahu? Letak ban tersebut tepat sekali di bawah kursi yang saya duduki (hhhh! Entah ini pertanda apa dan berusaha mencari hikmahnya)

Ps: I’m sorry pak sopir! Tapi berjanji saya tidak akan duduk di bagian angkot yang dibawahnya tepat ada roda LAGI

sekilas info May 30, 2010

Taukah anda,bahwa faradilla leolita galistan pernah meminum air aki karena dikira air mineral walaupun dia sadar bahwa airnya agak asem tapi tetap di minum karena alasan dahaga -_-”